MDEV-28105 Return error in ha_spider::write_row() if info(HA_STATUS_AUTO) fails
Spider calls info with HA_STATUS_AUTO to update auto increment info,
which may attempt to connect the data node. If the connection fails,
it may emit an error and return the same error. This error should not
be of lower priority than any possible error from the later call to
handler::update_auto_increment().
Without this change, certain errors from update_auto_increment() such
as HA_ERR_AUTOINC_ERANGE may get ignored, causing my_insert() to call
my_ok(), which fails the assertion because the error was emitted in
the info() call (Diagnostics_area::is_set() returns true).
